It’s A Process

Already know you’d like to work with me? Shoot me an email at or fill out this online intake form and I’ll get back to you asap.

“One woman, Violet, a 33-year-old who has lived in the Bay Area for eight years, […] experienced many of the same things I and other women did. [Tech dudes] had money, but they were boring. They had a lot to say about their job, but their development as a complete human being seemed to be stunted. And they exhibited little to no interest in the other person at the table.” You can read more from this here.

If that resonates, you might be feeling insecure, be having trouble dating, your intimate relationships could be lacking in some way, or you might find yourself feeling uninformed or inadequate in certain interactions. You also hopefully want to be a better person, partner, and lover.

I am available to help you help yourself become better in all these roles. We can work on your political education, small talk skills, edit your online dating profiles and discuss your chatting technique, explore how to sex up partners with care, and ultimately learn how to maintain those intimate relationships in a mutually beneficial fashion.

What I offer is to help you get yourself ready to connect with some of the many awesome women in the Bay Area. I will 100% meet you where you’re at in your process, no judgement – I will provide you with frank and caring feedback to help you level up your life and relationships. Our engagement will vary based on your needs, goals, and availability, but will always begin with an initial in-person meet and greet where I have a set of questions I will ask you and am available to answer any questions you might have. I am committed to walking your unique path with you – it’s a process.

I’ve done this kind of work with men in and out of the tech sector, though such men comprise the bulk of my experience. I have fluency in IT work, so I will be able to help you translate and contextualize your unique and valuable experiences in broader ways that will appeal to many others.

My overall goal is to help men be better, to get more people the romantic and sexual intimacy that will make their lives more meaningful, and generally help to build a better world through strengthening individuals and relationships.

If you’re interested in working with me, you can either email me at or complete this online intake form.

If you’d prefer to orally complete the form with me via telephone, just send me a brief email and we’ll set up a time to do so.